Then he send friend request and they become friends. us band works away i n ontario for 28 days n h omw for 2 weeks during all this time he constanltly accusse me of cheating or men coming on to me..I have never done nethin to cheat or give him reason to think I have or day evrything is perfect n th e next terrible n fighting..he tells me somethin is wrong n that its worse then cheating..n doesn’t know how to tell me I don’t know wat to do or say nemore I have treied it all ne adivce, Ok so i have been with this guy for 3 years now and of course when i got with him i knew that he had a girlfriend and 2 kids with her but at the same he told me he hated her and didnt like her she was only living at his house for the kids and of course he lives with his parents. Sometimes writing your thoughts can help you work things out, because it can bring clarity and insight. I have to show every sign of happiness towards him or he will try to make me feel bad. I come from affluent well to do family were things were more about vanity and luxury. I also saw she hadn’t responded to him. Either one makes me sick to my stomach. She would always be in his face. Why? He said that her Dad said call her phone if he doesnt answer. Im not from a divorced family so i dont know what it feels like but I will say that my son is going to have alot of questions for his father when he does find out. I really hope you’ve found strength since you wrote this… I’m praying for you! I catch him lying too much, almost all the time. i just need some help figuring this out please HELP!!! Now he tells me that he feels empty and without purpose; and blames me for failing him. In the end, if you’ve put your heart in and really tried to make this person happy and he remains unhappy within the relationship and won’t participate or communicate, then you are being mistreated and deserve better. I always felt that my husband cheated n me, i ask him once if he have an affair with an0ther woman he said no but the housemaid of my uncle saw them. He is planning on leaving with her. I married someone that I didn’t really know or understand. He’s only told me he loves me twice in the entire year and it was more at the 3 month mark, not so much anytime in the past few months. Now he’s decided he wants the marriage to work, but how do I know he’s serious? We never fight and we just never have any issues. after few days i told him why is he doing that to me, beside that he is staying with his son of 8 years how is the boy going to take it when he grow up. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. He thought I wouldn’t say anything. Always believe your husband’s nonverbal cues, especially if you suspect he’s lying about cheating. I said theres no excuse why ur texting her,… if she wont leave u alone why are you texting her? So if your friend can do it again please let me know. I didn’t want to be living with his parents anymore and he wouldn’t be financially ready to move for awhile. Which made me so blind to it all. Who would have thought it would have taken getting divorced to wind up in such a situation? He as four of the signs that hes cheating. You know it and he knows you know it. He I worry, he might be cheating on me as well (reaching out to other women). She said she didn’t know where he was that she was not with her, she had left the shop. He has been very controlling and there have been other issues, but never did I think he would have another relationship. (Gross, I know.). He doesn’t text anymore or call. Most of the questions seem to be coming from women who are in marriages or long term committed relationships–what do you think about handling cheating in new relationships? now he blames me for everything that goes wrong in his life,for instance about 2weeks ago he got the windscreen of his brand new car smashed by one of his girlfriends leading to a police case and guess who he blames? He has cheated in the past, multiple times, before we were married. Yet, had the nerve to tell me he was going to the firehouse to get homework done, because our daughter was being a pain in the butt throwing a temper tantrum and he needed to concentrate. I was a stay home mom until we agree to get I don’t know. All because I am supposed to just deal with his emotional connection he carries on with her???? Then why wouldn’t you want to make sure she not only hears it from you but feels it through your actions? if you would like to get some more information about how to deal with these kind of situation just click on my nickname in the title of the comment. He’s not as interested in physical intimacy as he was before, He picks fights or starts arguments with you. And noticed he visited a p*rn site during the time he was “angry” at me a few hours ago. He also has a girl on Twitter that he talked to over 38 times in one day. Please help. Your gut is telling you something, and you need to listen to it. He was always on his phone . She just looked at me and said nothing both times. Ami, I’ll keep you in my prayers. It sounds like he’s been thinking about the accusation, and it bothers him. I contacted her and her husband exposing every detail, email, pictures and texts. She send a messages with her picture and saying she misses him..Then there is another girl, same country. I’m only 23 years old and I’m so lost idk what to do at this point I feel like my love for him is lost somewhere. But I believe that in reality monogamy is unnatural for humans. Guess who was included? We have been through so much together. His classmates referred to them as couples. we are together for over 8 yrs with two kids now. How do we gain back trust. We get back home. I still think that he did. “He lied to me about the first e-mail from this woman,” says a reader on Is Your Marriage… Read More »5 Signs Your Husband is Using Facebook to Cheat. He PREYS on vulnerable woman like myself. I know if I ask any of his friends or their wives any questions they will tell him. The first two weeks I moved, things were normal. With that being said, I took what he said and sort of believed him. My whole family knows. My dad was an alcoholic and kept my mom in total domination. they also all sound similar. I confronted him. I’m so sorry you have to go through this. He is a man who is a cheater aka; player. What about a man? I’m not doing anything, but wonder if he is again. When I approach him, while he is looking at his iPhone or texting on it, he immediately puts in sleep mode and inserts phone in to his pant pockets. Hi Samantha, We started dating, finally we understood that we are a match and want to spend the eternaty togehter. Don’t let your husband take your power! Very unfortunate. He doesn’t want you to smell the scent of another woman and he also feels as if he cleanses his sins away. Maybe if I had known about this terrible disorder earlier, I might have gotten myself out of this marriage a long time ago. We planned both of our children and as recently as yesterday he was talking about trying for a girl. I trusted him over and over I believed him and trusted him, but now I dont buy it anymore. He wrote just hi to her. Lynne. Yes I am a man. then afew eeks later he has another text saying “good i’m glad she’s lucky yo have you x” then i confront him and he tells me it’s her and he forgot to delete bob i said do you think i’m an idiot i try and forget in the back of mind i find something our sex life non exsistant and he starts not looking after himself so yet again i say no sex until you start washing your a grown man .. 2 yrs and i ‘m struggling then out the blue this year 2012 i send the number of this woman a text saying happy new year and she text bac just happy new year .. then i say this is steve .. she did make a comment has if they hadn’t spoken for a few years .. but then i say i remember our chats and kisses in the van she replied i didn’t think you would remember ..then i found out they were slyly meeting up in 2004 when i was engaged to him and on valentines day he invited her over he said we had split up but he was always over my house .. saying he loved me i found out they went upstairs but chatted on the bed and she said we did do something but i didn’t know what i just got mad at her when i asked him to call to find out i made him do it … i look bac and don’t know what to do i think he says he only kissed her but they met in secret places you wouldn’t just meet for a peck on the lips and a chat about work … all this has come round again he decided to bring that woman back into his life to text him his calls and when the lorry leaves to text him so he gets there on time and if he didn’t text ba for her to wake him i’m fumming has he ased her to phone him when he is in our bed and i found out there history together … the question i asked is why did you want to bring her bac into your life he says i don’t know i didn’t really need to is that telling me something i’m devasted and don’t know whether we can survive after the harstache we went through any comments appreciated, How do I know if he’s cheating again? Hi, i have a feeling about my husband and twin sister, i have had dreams where the both tell me that something has gone on but i afraid to know the truth. The moment things didn’t turn out for him the way he planned and wanted, he was begging me back… We are still together, I’m mentally stronger and more confident than I was ever before. after some times he started again to date with someonelse again i told him if you want to come to my flat u should make appointment, he said he can not make appointment to come to her glfriend. The signs of cheating look different in every relationship, of course, but there are some common threads that you can look for. He didn’t know about that! The book is very inexpensive, short, and really easy to understand! When he came back I asked who was he talking with and he said the sister of someone we know well. So I let go of it. Well I posted a Meme on my snapchat saying “it’s sad we live in a generation where a female will pass up on a single man just to pursue a married man bc she likes the way he treats his wife”. He denies that he cheated on me, tells me she's a lesbian friend he's known since high school, but I know this is not even possible because she is straight, and she is 10 years younger than he is. I found all his accounts specifically to “hookup” with females, and figured the passwords too. He said that if I keep accusing him that I will never get ” what I want from him”. So I have nobody except him. In each case it was they who made the first approach, – after my habitual flirting and compliment paying didn’t seem to be going anywhere; I get pleasure from simply “being polite and engaging with the ladies” just as my father used to. But I still can’t get it out of my mind that he is lieing about not having sex with her and got emotionally involved instead of being there for me. He said he wanted to reconcile and I told him I didn’t know if that was possible . Abuse goes both ways ladies. Years later I told him that was the cruelest thing a partner could do their spouse! You didn’t do anything wrong. Alcohol GONE the minute I found out. I know better than this. He’s deleted texts to her but left hers. You deserve better than settling for less. They even said he must be beating me for a reason. I HATE people especially MEN who takes advantage of woman. He asked me if I put it there but I denied it. He does seem to genuinely like me just not sure how much. check his phone log, his emails, text messages. It seems that anything that has to do to her is off limits to me including his job. Does he have some growing up to do? He’s no longer as sweet as before. He didn’t answer my calls. Just click here…. what should I do? since then i been angry and just disgusted and just dont believr ever anymore he snaps at just about everything know i knoe pot does that controols the mind and stuff but omg and he changes his mind like 5 times in oneday with many things so i also think he has bypolar he alots of signs of it well know im a pretty lady a nd love to excersice so look pretty he hates anyone talk to me but i know it cause he can talk to anyone freely but not me my whole life was oneway jay so no im not asking how to handle this i know im crazy to leave right i know but he needs help or just leave im not the kids but no he wont leave i tell him i cant take it anymore well today i broke into his facebook and put more links gether but i do my research very well and when it presented lol im a physcic funny another lady said it too know when u look u find but yes ur mind can can just put other crazy imagainations well i been angry for a long time taht for years when we fight i dont care man years ago when i sure didnt know anything i was like nono dont leave me know wtf im lkike omg but right kno cause i saw facebook and the contacts that match his recent phone he had that lied and a bill was sent to his grandfather saying his cousin gave it to him no im not neive i dotn fall for nothing and he knows for years I h have been knumb well right know i justi can die i just cant anymore but my boys i love my boys they are so smart i dont want to go to work tomorrow know i been strong a long times for years casue other day he said patty i love u blah but yes he mite but me im a good girl i dont have freinds im home for my boys we do stuff but as a family we dont maybe 5 times a year or sothing likekid b day or they got honors but it never fun he yells at us i know it the pot in his brain cause one second nice then snaps then jums to sothing else or the bypolar thing i think he has my kids said it once too they noitce it and i dont disrespect there father to the kids please if they new anything like that omg no words for that. 506 men and women are struggling with the date hope each and every time my eyes out to! 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